The Ember Journal

Why So Many Women Avoid Sex (And How to Feel Desirable Again Without the Shame)

Why So Many Women Avoid Sex (And How to Feel De...

We don’t talk about it enough, but it’s common: Many women pull away from intimacy—not because they’ve lost interest, but because they don’t feel sexy anymore. Sound familiar? You are not...

Why So Many Women Avoid Sex (And How to Feel De...

We don’t talk about it enough, but it’s common: Many women pull away from intimacy—not because they’ve lost interest, but because they don’t feel sexy anymore. Sound familiar? You are not...

Dryness During Sex? Here’s What No One Tells You

Dryness During Sex? Here’s What No One Tells You

Let’s talk about something that too many women are silently struggling with: vaginal dryness. Not just the kind that causes a little discomfort—but the kind that shuts down your desire...

Dryness During Sex? Here’s What No One Tells You

Let’s talk about something that too many women are silently struggling with: vaginal dryness. Not just the kind that causes a little discomfort—but the kind that shuts down your desire...

Want Better Orgasms from Penetration? Try the C.A.T. Technique

Want Better Orgasms from Penetration? Try the C...

Most women don’t climax from penetration alone—and that’s normal. Learn the C.A.T. technique for better orgasms, deeper connection, and expert-backed intimacy tips. Plus, discover my favorite couple’s toy to take...

Want Better Orgasms from Penetration? Try the C...

Most women don’t climax from penetration alone—and that’s normal. Learn the C.A.T. technique for better orgasms, deeper connection, and expert-backed intimacy tips. Plus, discover my favorite couple’s toy to take...

How to Talk to Your Partner About Sex Without the Shame

How to Talk to Your Partner About Sex Without t...

Let’s be real—talking about sex can feel... awkward. Even with the person you love most. Maybe especially with them. You might be afraid of hurting their feelings. You might not...

How to Talk to Your Partner About Sex Without t...

Let’s be real—talking about sex can feel... awkward. Even with the person you love most. Maybe especially with them. You might be afraid of hurting their feelings. You might not...

Low Libido? You’re Not Broken—You’re Asking for Attention

Low Libido? You’re Not Broken—You’re Asking for...

She sat across from me with her hands folded in her lap and her eyes cast down. “I used to want sex all the time,” she said quietly. “Now? I...

Low Libido? You’re Not Broken—You’re Asking for...

She sat across from me with her hands folded in her lap and her eyes cast down. “I used to want sex all the time,” she said quietly. “Now? I...